My fiancee broke up with me...and returned the engagement ring???? need advice, please?

We r engaged.. we met when she was doing her masters in psychology here, in England...


Shes from Brazil, and now that she got her degree, she returned to her country...we r so far...but I always travel to Brazil to see her, and sometimes she comes...She worth it, shes perfect, love of my life... we didnt got married before, only because she doesnt want to move to England..


But the worst problem is that my fiancee called few days ago and broke up with me... I already bought a ticket to Brazil in order to resolve it...but today i received a fedex package with her engagement ring (and many other things)...I think she is really serious about her decision.


The problem is that shes right, she found out that I cheated on her...I know.. huge mistake, though I was drunk...I screwed up...


For sure I know who told her...MY 'friend', because since I introduce them, he doesnt stop talking how shes beautiful, gorgeous, intelligent ...then..suddenly she knows that I cheated on her? how is possible, if she lives in Brazil? Im furious...


I dont believe its over now, I am trying call her, but I think she changed her phone number..so, I called her parents, her father told me no need to come, because she already made her decision....Im desperate!!! her friends dont pick up the phone...WTF!


So, I travel to Brazil and then what? Im lost... what can I do? Need advice!!!My fiancee broke up with me...and returned the engagement ring???? need advice, please?
I'm sorry you're hurting, but to be brutally honest what did you expect?





Long distance relationships are hard enough at the best of times and totally rely on openness, honesty and trust. You cheated, now you're paying the price. It doesn't matter how she found out, what matters is that you didn't love and respect her enough to keep it in your pants. Accept her choice, learn from your mistakes and move on.





Just count yourself lucky that it happened before she wasted any more of her life on you or you packed up your lfe and moved halfway round the world.My fiancee broke up with me...and returned the engagement ring???? need advice, please?
Watch ';Tuesdays with Morrie.'; best movie ever with TONS of things/ideas that will helpout with your relationship...and dont give up!
I do agree .. what do you expect lol .. but think you should go over there .. like urv said youv got ur ticket..





You would have more chance of winning her back face to face..
I'll be brutally honest too.





I would leave her alone. You cheated on her, drunk or not, doesn't matter! She doesn't want anything to do with you and I don't blame her. It sounds like she's got some self-respect and you lost a great girl.
You deserve all the hurt in the world. Once a cheater always a cheater. And to top it off you use the famous line ';I was drunk'; Well if you know you do stupid things when you drink then don't drink. She just didn't mean that much to you, you used her. And face it she is gone, out of your life, wants nothing to do with you, she isn't just gorgeous, she is very SMART to dump you, cheater.
Chalk it up as a learning experience. You cheated, therefore you don't deserve her and can not have her. That's just the way it is.
If she wasn't wanting to move to England were you going to move to Brazil? I mean you have to talk about these things if your getting married and it wouldn't of worked if you two couldn't of decided on that. I think that if you really love her and think it could work go see her. You should probably at least talk it over and have some closure.
i have 3 words: SHAME ON YOU.





you dont deserve her, leave her alone and go find someone else to cheat on. I hate guys who claim their undying love for a girl but yet they still manage to hurt them, if she was so good the thought wouldnt even come in to your mind, drunk or not.