I faked and engagement to please my parents..HELP..ADVICE...?

my parents r russian and super strict want me to get engaged before i move in with my boyfriend of 1year.


hes very nice very well off prominant guy...my parent like im but dnt want us to move in together before an engagement or marrage...


we said no and my parents disowned me..


little do they know we have been for the past 6 months


i couldnt take it not speaking to my family or my sibilings


so me and him faked an engement for them..ONLY..


i mean my family


no one else knows besdides my family no friends no one..


im torn bc i dnt want him to feel cornered..


we act the same but im just not happy that it came down to this and neither is he..


i mean we talk about the future and all but of corse you neer know


but to have todo this realllly sucks..and now my bf has no respect or desire to be remotley lose to my family at all...


any HELPor ADVICE?I faked and engagement to please my parents..HELP..ADVICE...?
It's not good to lie. You're an adult and can make your own decisions.I faked and engagement to please my parents..HELP..ADVICE...?
This might surprise you but lots of people who aren't ';super strict'; would agree with your parents that it's a bad idea for young unmarried or (non-engaged) couples to live together. Maybe you should have listened to them.





The fact that you 2 faked an engagement tells me you're not ready for the commitment an engagement means.





And it could get complicated very quickly if someone in your family mentions it to someone outside the family.
Did you get a clue yet what lies do to you? Your bf is a jerk, but certainly is enjoying the free sex you provide him.
well there your parents and just cause they don't like your decisions they will still love you tell them the truth and just explain your not ready for marriage
honesty is the best policy come clean to your parent and set the record straight