Monday, December 28, 2009

My fiance broke up with me...and returned the engagement ring???? need advice, please?

We r engaged.. we met when she was doing her masters in psychology here, in England...


Shes from Brazil, and now that she got her degree, she returned to her country...we r so far...but I always travel to Brazil to see her, and sometimes she comes...She worth it, shes perfect, love of my life... we didnt got married before, only because she doesnt want to move to England..


But the worst problem is that my fiance called few days ago and broke up with me... I already bought a ticket to Brazil in order to resolve it...but today i received a fedex package with her engagement ring (and many other things)...I think she is really serious about her decision.


The problem is that shes right, she found out that I cheated on her...I know.. huge mistake, though I was drunk...I screwed up...


For sure I know who told her...MY 'friend', because since I introduce them, he doesnt stop talking how shes beautiful, gorgeous, intelligent ...then..suddenly she knows that I cheated on her? how is possible, if she lives in Brazil? Im furious...


I dont believe its over now, I am trying call her, but I think she changed her phone number..so, I called her parents, her father told me no need to come, because she already made her decision....Im desperate!!! her friends dont pick up the phone...WTF!


So, I travel to Brazil and then what? Im lost... what can I do? Need advice!!!My fiance broke up with me...and returned the engagement ring???? need advice, please?
You have made a mistake of cheating on your fiancee, and she has every right to break things off with you. You have broken her heart, I hope you don't cheat on her again. What I suggest is not to go to Brazil and move on. Make this a learning experience.My fiance broke up with me...and returned the engagement ring???? need advice, please?
There is no point in telling you that you SCREWED UP BIG TIME because you already know that but I don't think you should go all the way to Brazil, she's clearly there because she needs some space and if she ever thinks about giving you another chance she'll probably get in touch so it's best you give her the space she needs.


And if she dosen't come back to you it's probably because she loves you enough to let you go so good luck mate!

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